Why Being Alone is Beautiful

Alright, it has been about a month since I have last written here.

It’s good to see you by the way(:.

Looking back, I am sure happy with my past work, even if it seemed a bit somber, and honestly even a little depressing. Why? Authenticity is valuable, and writing down what you feel helps you grow, and hope my struggles within a present moment can provide you relief through reliability because that is the ultimate goal of this blog. To provide you value in a way that you can define.

The path month, I have spent a grand majority of the time alone.

Sure there have been some nights here and there where I hang out with my awesome friends. Sure there has been the rare occasion where I go out to a party. However, most of my time has been spent with myself and my second book. (P.S I’m so exited for that.)

To describe this month, which has been primarily away from the bar, the party, and the girls, there is only one word. Transformative, and why that is the case is the subject matter I want to present to you.

So much of our lives in the modern world are directed by the external. Social media subconsciously allows us to compare our lives with each other. People get wrapped up in the girls the are talking to or the clout they obtain from being the socially awesome people that they are.

Now, it isn’t that this stuff is bad, being social is part of being human. I do think social media is dangerous, but that is an argument that you and I can have later. I just believe that in order to be our best selves in the world of external pressure and comparisons, we must become masters of our internal selves.

Spending time alone, and become our own best friend alleviates us from any damage that social pressure may cause us. Now, I am not saying being insulted or blown off can’t hurt, but what I am saying is by becoming your own best friend and being comfortable with who you are, you free yourself from chasing the validation of the external, and that is precociously where we lose our humanity.

The world should never tell you who you are or what you should be doing. The world should never allow you to define your own charisma and personality. To be the best version of yourself, you must define those terms for you.

The minute you can be alone, and not worry about the externalities of life, is the minute you start to realize you are exactly who you need to be.

You are an amazing person, and a lot of the times, the world knows that. However, where some can get lost (as I did) is not recognizing that fact for yourself.

I love you, and I am also amped for Logics new album :D.