Being An Extroverted Introvert

Okay, I get it the title is a bit of an oxymoron, but stay with me here.

When people think of introverts, they tend to think of shy and reserved people, who in essence are not very social with others.

When people think of extroverts, they think the opposite. A person who is outgoing and unafraid to make their presence felt in social situations.

These people are not wrong, but they are.

An introvert is actually someone who is more focused on internal feelings than external stimulation. Meaning that the way they feel has more impact on them than external validation of disqualification.

Yes, introverts tend to be shy because of this since they are so hard on themselves and so in tune with their feelings, but it does not have to be that way.

For you introverts reading this, your words, your opinions, and your feelings matter, and those traits are what make us special.

It can be hard to put yourself out there, but also remember that along with being your toughest critic, you are also your biggest supporter.

Do not be ashamed of who you are because you are a valuable person, meaning that you can provide value to the world.

The way you do this, develop extroverted tendencies. Speak out when you feel the need to, put yourself in a position to provide value to people, experience new, shine your brightest for the world to see.

But never forget who you are.

Your gift is that you are in tune with your emotions. You gift is that you can feel, whether it be good or bad.

When you look at it this way, being an introvert is actually a blessing, because you know how to guide your ship towards everlasting happiness.

So be proud that you are an introvert, and show it to the world.